My husband Roger is a selfish person . For one thing , he refuses to moov out of the city , even tough it is a bad place to rise the children . We inherited some moneys when my parents died , and it migt be enough for a down payment on a small house in a nearby town but Roger says he would misse his friends in the neighbourhoud . Also Roger allways spends any budget money that is leave over . Only a week ago , he spent the money left for the kids ' college to buy the latest Cadillac sports car . He spent the rest of the money on a luxury house in the mountains knowing perfectly well that I and the children get sik when we are in the mountains . Another example of Roger ' s selfishnesse is that he leaves all the work of care for the children to me . He never brings they to school or brings them back home . I remember the day our children were perform in Snow White at school . Roger didn ' t come to see them . Instead , he went hikking in Colorado with Karine once of his female friends . He never helps them do their homework , he watches soccer insted . And when it ' s bedtime and the kids want him to read them a story , he goes to his office and spends all his time on telephone making noise and preventing the kids from felling asleep . Finally , when we go on vacation , we always go where Roger wants to go . Last summer , he brought us to Las Vegas for a weekend because his last single friend was having a bachelor party . I spent the entier weekend in a hotel room with the kids . I still can ' t believe that he preferred Las Vegas to the Palm Coast of Florida where I wanted to go because our son had to participate as a finalist in a national spelling contest . We will never know if he would have won . Roger is the most selfish person I have ever meet . I just regret I didn ' t find out about his selfishness before marrying him .